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originally posted by: BlueMule
I watched a TED talk by Joan Halifax about compassion, and she listed 'enemies of compassion' as:
1. Pity
2. Moral outrage
3. Fear
4. Attachment to outcomes
And as a bonus, here is another TED talk about self-compassion as an alternative to self-esteem.
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originally posted by: BlueMule
a reply to: LOSTinAMERICA
Wisdom is knowing when to act and when not to, as in giving an inch. Compassion can and should be there either way, regardless. Otherwise, you are making it conditional on the basis of a mere social mechanism and judgment by way of it.
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originally posted by: BlueMule
a reply to: LOSTinAMERICA
You're making it about politics. No one here is saying have compassion so we can raise your taxes. Compassion doesn't have to be attached to your wallet. You can feel it for everyone, all the time, unconditionally, because everyone, even those who don't need your tax dollars, deserves it. Even you. Just like love.
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The scans showed that when meditating on compassion, Ricard's brain produces a level of gamma waves - those linked to consciousness, attention, learning and memory - 'never reported before in the neuroscience literature', Davidson said
originally posted by: TwoRavens
If one isn't praying for things to get better, then what is the POINT of prayer?????????????
originally posted by: TwoRavens
and if that child has no parent? That is where compassion starts. That is what is truly divine in my own book. What is truly perfect. To see a need and fill it. All I have ever seen of detachment has led to more suffering. That is my own interpretation, your mileage may vary. If I was a Divine Being, I would do more good and bring more good into the world. If I was someone seeing someone else in pain, I would want to reach out and help. But far too often the Divine means to "let someone else develop at their own pace"..when maybe the pace should be to lend a hand now and then. I would rather be imperfect if it means questioning the suffering and wanting to not just not SEE others suffer or know I wasn't the one RESPONSIBLE for their suffering but not care about what I saw or was responsible for but rather for what I FELT and act from the HEART.
If one isn't praying for things to get better, then what is the POINT of prayer?????????????
originally posted by: Benevolent Heretic
In that case, I would agree that using my definitions of pity (feeling sorry for), moral outrage (anger and resistance to what is), fear and attachment all run counter to actual compassion.