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Can you love another if you don't love yourself?
Is it easier to love another or be loved by another?
If we don't love ourselves, is it possible to be loved by another?
Does the love we give reduce the love we give ourselves?
originally posted by: the2ofusr1
a reply to: eisegesis
If we see a random act of kindness happen then we have observed a act of love .Love is kind .....Love is a action ....
You can't define love but it can be felt.
I don't believe so, love emanates from your being, so if you do not love yourself then how can you emanate it to others? Sorry for answering your question with another question.
It's easier to be loved by another because it requires no work from yourself whereas to love another requires personal input from yourself.
It's possible to be loved by another without loving yourself.
love for others should multiply love for yourself because to love others truly is to put yourself in their shoes.
originally posted by: eisegesis
Just some random questions that came to mind. If the first question cannot be answered, the rest are pretty much pointless.
If we can't objectively define “love”, how do we know when we are in it, giving it or receiving it?
Can you love another if you don't love yourself?
Is it easier to love another or be loved by another?
If we don't love ourselves, is it possible to be loved by another?
Does the love we give reduce the love we give ourselves?
Thanks