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originally posted by: Benevolent Heretic
originally posted by: queenofswords
More indepth studies and studies done over longer periods of time should be carried out first, imo.
How can you carry out more in-depth studies if gay people aren't permitted to marry and adopt?
As I said, once marriage is allowed by law, you cannot discriminate when it comes to adoption.
Agreed. And there's no justification for continued discrimination.
originally posted by: Krazysh0t
originally posted by: greencmp
originally posted by: Krazysh0t
a reply to: greencmp
I'd say you are comparing apples to oranges here. You are a person and a union is a labor organization. It falls under different rules and guidelines by the nature of it not being human.
So, AARP should be able to commit acts of violence against opponents of the social security administration?
Again you are talking about organizational rights versus human rights. Marriage is between two people not two organizations. For your comparison, you need to include humans being able to commit acts of violence against other humans.
originally posted by: Benevolent Heretic
a reply to: greencmp
Like freedom of speech and religion... So what's your point?
originally posted by: Krazysh0t
a reply to: ketsuko
Regardless of the government's original intentions as far as marriage goes this is where we stand now. To be honest, it was Christians themselves who got marriage intertwined with government. Funnily enough it is Christians who are the ones trying to change it when they don't like where government is going with it.
originally posted by: Sremmos80
a reply to: queenofswords
So is the long and short of this that if the studies show it has a negative impact then we should not allow it?
If yes, how do you feel about single parenting? Should we not be allowing that.
originally posted by: Eunuchorn
originally posted by: CharlieSpeirs
Then I guess everyone is a bigot in some form.
Especially people who call people bigots.
Paradox.
Very true, though.
Anyone who firmly believe marriage is between a man & a woman puts way too much value on words, definitions, ideologies, other people's business, & everything else probably.
originally posted by: queenofswords
originally posted by: Benevolent Heretic
originally posted by: queenofswords
More indepth studies and studies done over longer periods of time should be carried out first, imo.
How can you carry out more in-depth studies if gay people aren't permitted to marry and adopt?
As I said, once marriage is allowed by law, you cannot discriminate when it comes to adoption.
Agreed. And there's no justification for continued discrimination.
Gay couples are raising kids even without the benefit of marriage. There are plenty of opportunities to study this more indepth. We need unbiased factual studies long-term before we can be sure children are not psychologically harmed by this. This is the only issue that concerns me. I am always about children first. That is not discrimination.
originally posted by: Sremmos80
a reply to: queenofswords
So is the long and short of this that if the studies show it has a negative impact then we should not allow it?
If yes, how do you feel about single parenting? Should we not be allowing that.
originally posted by: Krazysh0t
a reply to: EternalSolace
Can you answer my question since the OP won't. Forget about the benefits for a second. What is wrong with saying a man and a man are married or a woman and a woman is married? Why does that matter anyways?
originally posted by: EternalSolace
originally posted by: Benevolent Heretic
originally posted by: EternalSolace
Your argument is still about a title and not the benefits.
Marriage is not a "title". It's a word that has several meanings. One of them is a secular contract offered by the government.
A civil union is a secular contract offered by the government. Only a civil union doesn't carry federal benefits. Why not extend the federal benefits to civil unions?
originally posted by: CranialSponge
originally posted by: Sremmos80
a reply to: queenofswords
So is the long and short of this that if the studies show it has a negative impact then we should not allow it?
If yes, how do you feel about single parenting? Should we not be allowing that.
If studies and statistics of psychological harm being done to children are to be taken into consideration with regards to whom is allowed to marry, then I'd say heterosexual people have failed miserably... since damn near all children who've grown up in dysfunctional families and have grown up to become a scar on society, have been raised in heterosexual home environments.
Um, oops ?
As I stated earlier, imo, gay couples are perfectly capable of loving and nurturing children, but even so, you have to admit there are psychological and/or emotional ramifications to consider.
The psychological/emotional ramifications is being caused by other people not in acceptance of these types of marriages, not with the loving nurturing parents themselves.