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originally posted by: Annee
And we can look at this another way.
This unhappy transgender teen, who felt there was no future for her, may have just saved hundreds of other transgender teens.
Perspective.
originally posted by: ManBehindTheMask
What right do you have to force someone to accept you, when you dont want to be forced to accept their views?
And then kill yourself?
Seems hypocritical
originally posted by: Asktheanimals
No, I'm not going to pity transgender kids.
There's nothing wrong with them except for possibly a case of denying physical reality.
The media is trying to push one more group for protected status as victims in our society.
There is a league of difference between positive acceptance, passive acceptance, toleration, and straight out active rejection. The argument you're making is the same one some religious people make when they say, 'why can't you just tolerate me hating you, you stupid gay person!'
originally posted by: ManBehindTheMask
Essentially these people are saying there is no middle ground, you accept me or this is the consequences......
I object to the term 'these people' on multiple levels.
Could be said the parents were saying there is no middle ground as evidenced
you did a whole bunch of edits. You seem to believe that trans# people are a terrorist organization that threatens suicide en masse like lemmings if they don't get what they want
originally posted by: Annee
a reply to: Jamie1
All I can say, once again is, Life is not a textbook.
All your posts, no matter the subject are the same. As if they come out of a black and white textbook.
I understand your points perfectly. But, real life just doesn't function like a textbook.
originally posted by: Galadriel
a reply to: Jamie1
Yes, we all have choices. We all can choose not to perceive something a certain way, to not take it personally, to not get caught up in the "story" we tell ourselves about the physical facts. The examples you have given about coaching/counseling women, girls about how they perceive and attach meaning to horrible events (rape, incest, bullying, whatever) is great.
The only thing that is different here in this real life flesh and blood, life and death case is that she (or he if you choose) did not have the benefit of such a wise and clinical sage such as yourself. In fact, it seems she did not have anyone who could help her see logically that her depression, lack of hope, feelings of oppression -- whatever -- could be viewed as choices.
It's like Victor Frankl (spelling?) and the choices in thinking and reacting to being in a concentration camp. I get it. I think most of us here after all these posts, get it. But this young teen did not have the benefit of counseling or an adult mind of her own, or a mom or dad who could help her see the truth about choices.
So you can say all you want about choices. If a child of 5 years old is depressed and says, Momma, I need to go walk in front of a truck and die so I can go be with daddy in heaven -- which is literally exactly what my child said to me the day of his dad's funeral - at age 5 -- he doesn't have the capacity to understand how to not perceive the situation differently. A child of 5 lives in the moment, lives in an emotional whirlwind - and isn't going to be able to rationally think through the ramifications of such "stories."
I know 40 year olds who are lost in their stories. They never learned anything different. Is it there fault they were never exposed to that kind of thinking? I fall into my own stories sometimes. We're not machines, we're not perfect, and sometimes a helping hand and person outside of the story is what is needed. Joshua/Leelah didn't seem to have that person. Not her fault, is it? Compassion, empowerment, kindness and clear thinking -- all would have been helpful.
originally posted by: Galadriel
-- which is literally exactly what my child said to me the day of his dad's funeral - at age 5 -- he doesn't have the capacity to understand how to not perceive the situation differently. A child of 5 lives in the moment, lives in an emotional whirlwind - and isn't going to be able to rationally think through the ramifications of such "stories."
your brain, my brain, everybody's brain
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: SubTruth
a reply to: snarky412
Many.....Many people deal with issues like this and make a go of it. We should celebrate those people not the people who take the cowardly way out. I know this is harsh but it is the truth.
Quietly go into the night. Don't make waves.
Got it.
originally posted by: ManBehindTheMask
a reply to: Pinke
Why must people find so many reasons to be offended........
People who are constantly offended can never be placated........