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If Santa Claus does any serious mental damage to your kids then they are in for a lifetime of misery and antidepressants.
originally posted by: nonspecific
I understand the whole lying thing from the perspective of a critical thinking adult but does any one really have a problem with there parents creating a happy fantasy full of awe, wonder and magical reindeers for to make them happy as a child?
It's like the tooth fairy, yes it's a lie but it distracts children from the pain and discomfort of teeth falling out which is pretty unpleasant.
Side note - She believed in the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy for a long time.
originally posted by: Spiramirabilis
a reply to: kosmicjack
I remember one Christmas Eve when I was pretty little getting out of bed after everyone else was asleep and going downstairs to wait up and see what happens. The tree was all lit up in the dark - glorious and gorgeous fire hazard that it was. I lived in the mountains, in the middle of a pine forest and it had just snowed - and there was a full moon...
I accidentally bumped something under the tree - a music box - and it played a little something for about 4 seconds
I can't even describe how perfect it all was - magical - waiting for Santa. I still remember that night all these years later, even though I now know the truth. It's one of those perfect memories - unspoiled by reality
Don't remember exactly how old I was when I stopped believing - but I was young. I vaguely remember recognizing my dad's handwriting on the thank you note Santa left for the cookies. All it takes is a detail - parents can't think of everything :-)
My dad was an atheist, but he still got into it. Painted rabbit tracks on the floor for Easter. So - maybe this won't make sense coming from a godless heathen - but there's nothing wrong with a little mystery and magic in a kid's life. Even if it's make believe - and maybe especially because it is make believe
You're son was angry - but now he gets it. It's as much about giving that sense of wonder as receiving it. I remember specifically not wanting to ruin things for my younger sisters
I say let him have Santa. If he's still into it by the time he's 10 - maybe have a word. Or, let his brother
originally posted by: Grovit
a reply to: Spiramirabilis
i write from santa with my left hand. im right handed
i also do the rabbit tracks.
i hold 3 cotton balls in my 3 fingers and dip them in baby powder. then i make a trail from the front door, into my childs rooms, all over their #, and finally to where i put the basket
I did not say anything to my parents for fear of spoiling the magic. It seemed to me that they enjoyed it as much as I did. It's joyful play acting. There's a reason why the tradition has been passed down from generation to generation.
originally posted by: Spiramirabilis
My dad was an atheist, but he still got into it. Painted rabbit tracks on the floor for Easter. So - maybe this won't make sense coming from a godless heathen - but there's nothing wrong with a little mystery and magic in a kid's life. Even if it's make believe - and maybe especially because it is make believe
originally posted by: Spiramirabilis
a reply to: nonspecific
That made me laugh because there really is something a little creepy - and sinister - about the whole tooth fairy thing
I mean - what would she want with my teeth?!