originally posted by: Realtruth
originally posted by: Kali74
People change and grow through their whole lives, sometimes in that process relationships don't survive. That's just life.
Maybe the traditional marriages have outlived their usefulness perhaps?
And maybe the way we view relationships and need to possess the other party should change as well. It appears that with the disposable society we
live in today, survival rates of long term relationships are a thing of the past, and we should all get use to parting ways when things don't
So basically be happy for the other person when they want to move on.
I think it's the degradation of the husband/wife family unit that is the major reason for all the corruption going on now, and the reason for lost
youths that either end up in the military and sent to their deaths (population control), or on the streets (in the prisons) or if female, one of the
ones who will financially rob men in court in the future, (creating the cycle again) or boys who love that pretty face..and will be the victim of the
aforementioned woman, taken to court and will leave with the next 18-20 years of his life a financial hell. Women always use the defense that 9 months
of in utero discomfort, followed by a few hours of birth using an epidural, (where they virtually feel nothing), is a strong defense as to why men
should be the ones to burn financially. I personally would have rather had the epidural and the 9 months than what I had to go through. Shoot both
legs..whatever you want...it certainly beats 18-20 years of financial ruin.
At any rate, and back on point, after the family is broken apart by feminist ideas and application by a government who knows that it's best to take
out and/or emasculate men, because the fewer Real Men that is left...is fewer that they have to fight. (god knows the women wont do it, and will most
likely lay the red carpet for the NWO for giving them everything on a silver platter).
That said, the opportunities are endless for those from a broken family. The female child could end up as a prostitute, stripper a junkie or by
derivation of their mothers following the feminist doctrine and collecting a little nest egg for themselves...the daughters will search for the father
they never had, who will abuse them sexually, and this wil be acceptable to the "daughter" who now has a "father figure" at least. I know I have
had my fun.
Hell, the skies the limit right? Here is what really happens---> The mother (once divorced), cannot control the children, because the children grow
angry for not having a father, in their lives, and the female children usually end up trying to find that father figure (as mentioned before), by
going for older men (which they trade for sex as an acceptable price). Hmph! Kinda like me.
I will have to thank the feminists however for this part, however even I am human...it's not right...even though it gets me what I want easily. For
the sake of humanity, I would want things to work out for both parties and that there would be no psychological deviations or lapses of judgement
because of the sins of the mother....who somehow thought it was acceptable to marry a guy, even if she didn't love him. Sometimes lie to him, and
tell him that she is either on the pill, or that she cannot have children...just to have that little (convenient) miracle to happen.
Then the games begin! She then benefits herself, and rapes (and yes I said "rapes"), a man of his self esteem, any desires he may ever have, any
future, any chance of surviving comfortably. Then the words come, that so many men before me have heard before. I want a divorce. She then tightens
those hands on those testosterone pills, to the point of emasculating agony, starts a fight and then divorces him,...and it turns out that she ever
loved him in the first place.
Trust me, I know this first hand. Without the tightly integrated family fabric, which once gave us scenarios such as the mother teaching the kids
about the world and it's wonders, teaching them about compassion and empathy (things women USED TO BE natural at doing); and the father teaching hem
the ways of the world, the evils to avoid, how to stay alive and trades to carry them throughout their lives. Once the family fabric was cut asunder,
because it was more profitable for women to divorce the father...get the child..get the alimony, and at the same time call it equality, while having
their own paychecks, and NOT having the same responsibilities as men to pay child support, alimony, report to a District Attorney monthly to prove
said payments, or to have to buy things for the child because women are not responsible to,
it has caused a rip in that stable system, where husband and wife once worked together...not for the needs of themselves (like feminism teaches), but
by working together FOR THE NEEDS OF THEIR CHILDREN. Ever since feminism has started, there is nothing but chaos in families. Men get married, but
only women only reap the benefits, no benefit for men 2 be married.
If men cannot pay a couple of months of child support for reasons such as [not being able to afford to eat or being able to pay rent etc] What
happens? The court makes it even harder for the man by taking away his drivers license and his passport if he has one. This way he will not be able to
get to his job or leave the country.
Women???? No responsibility whatsoever, and nothing to fear from the government. It's all one sided, and against men. Trust me, I have been there and
dealt with this. I know first hand how this works.
That said, if it wasn't so profitable for women to divorce, or simply if they had to pay AND PROVE that they paid an equal amount as men in child
support or alimony...we would not have all of this animosity from men, children running amok and lost, joining gangs because lets face it...they are
not threatened by women (why would they be?). Men are more threatening just by their very nature of being a man, (which is kind of the theme that
feminists are expounding on by saying that a threatening image = violence to women) and this kept most kids in line.
My family now, we are tight because we are all on the same page, me and my wife work together, she teaches and shows the empathy and all of
that...even home schools our kids. I teach them how to survive and what types of people to avoid, how to fight, and they listen to everything I say
because they they have a certain fear of me (respect) as a man who they have witnessed doing what he says he will do...if he says he will do it. I
never abrogate anything I say. If I say I will do something...it gets done. They know when I tell them to do something, or there will be a
consequence, that I will follow through. I might add, I never have to lay a finger on them. My voice, my authority, my strong stance and the fact that
I am over twice their size...is enough to keep them in line.
I think there is a great deal of use for the family sticking together...why do you think the government/Illuminati (or whatever the F* they call
themselves today), are trying to break the families apart? Because, it gives them a reason to install a police state and to blame us for it. Because
we could not control ourselves. Just remember, back when the families were tight..we did not have half of the BS we are dealing with today.