a reply to: Flowfessional
Now let me see here. You state you no longer want to be in a relationship .
Done... you are not. You should be happy if this is what you want, to not be in a relationship. You aren't and so whats the problem here. You got what
Oh wait. You say not totally, mostly. Part of you still wants a family life with all the trimmings. Swell. However you then state that you have
accepted that this wont ever happen. Wow. Sounds like defeatism to me. You do want it but will never have it. Well, finuto. kaput, Finis.
Advice from me???? Haaa!!! Noting ain't gonna happen until you snap outta whatever the heck it is that is holding you stuck. Where ever you are, how
every you are, why ever you are, what kinda girl is going to come along and want to be with you when you are in such a downer dude? One that is in the
same boat maybe, or maybe one that wants to SAVE you. Heaven forbid you fall into THAT trap. Ever. Yeah, and what kind of kids would you have then.
You got come kind of idea that a gal will come along and you will fall in some kind of Hollywood love scenario and everything will be hunky dorrie for
ever after???? Blow that idea, it ain't gonna happen.
Again, where ever you are, how every you are, why ever you are, do it. Do it was happily as you can and whatever dream you are holding onto making
your singleness such a drag, let loose of it. Find what DOES make you happy and then later, maybe sooner, maybe much later, a gal will cross paths
with you and she will think, hmmmm, he may not be Brad Pitt but he sure is a happy fellow. Hmmmm.
Until you do, don't come whinning to me again.
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