posted on Dec, 14 2004 @ 01:48 PM
my pain would be a relationship from a long time ago...
I dated a girl for almost 3 years, we met when I was 17, she was 15.
Not a single day went by that we were not together, every minute that we were not in eachothers presence we were on the phone together.
Finally after 3 years, she just decided that she didn't want to be with me anymore. Maybe all that time together was too much ? I later found out,
that she had met another and had been writing letters to him for a couple of months, he was away in the Army.
That's fine. I now see how my life might have turned out, had she and I stayed together. I know people who still see her from time to time and
it's not too good. 4 kids, unhappy marriage to "him", etc.
So while I thought I was going to die in those first few days without her, I got up and moved on, a great move it was.