posted on Nov, 7 2014 @ 05:34 PM
When someone causes you to suffer it is because the suffering and pain that that person feels is so much that it is pouring out of their being and
contaminating those around them. Therefor this person does not need for us to retaliate and punish but it calls upon us to show compassion and a
helping hand. If you do anything else you are only creating more chaos and dysfunction.
I know its one thing for me to say these things but entirely different to actually put them into practice. Especially in todays society where it
is natural to feel negative towards someone that we think has done us wrong because lets face it, it simply doesn't feel good. But this grudge
mentality only furthers the separation between us. Far more often than not we never let go of this emotion so we stay divided and disconnected.
Holding onto these animosities as if we're afraid that we are worse off with out it. That if we let it go we are some how admitting defeat. But
looking at it in a different light you see all that is lost is a feeling that ultimately you didn't even enjoy .