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originally posted by: WarminIndy
originally posted by: cado angelus
a reply to: WarminIndy
Nope. i didn't suggest that. I'm alluding to the great hypocritical nature of many religious folk and how you if you upset them they will launch at you, attacking with all guns blazing.
Not justifying anything - a mere comment.
OK then, I do see your point.
I don't know why people associate ALL Christians as that, though. If I had children in this life, I would definitely teach them that actions have consequences and to accept the consequences of their actions.
A minute of pleasure might just be a lifetime of pain.
originally posted by: cado angelus
originally posted by: WarminIndy
originally posted by: cado angelus
a reply to: WarminIndy
Nope. i didn't suggest that. I'm alluding to the great hypocritical nature of many religious folk and how you if you upset them they will launch at you, attacking with all guns blazing.
Not justifying anything - a mere comment.
OK then, I do see your point.
I don't know why people associate ALL Christians as that, though. If I had children in this life, I would definitely teach them that actions have consequences and to accept the consequences of their actions.
A minute of pleasure might just be a lifetime of pain.
Please don't misunderstand me. Whilst an antithesist by nature, a Hitchenite, I am not quite. Whilst there are some good churchgoers, when they're bad - wow - are they bad.
And for the record - I would beat my son to within an inch of his life and then drag him to the station if he so much as had sex with someone without clear verbal consent.
I will tell you why, because she should not have the immaturity to enter into a relationship without future regret.
At 19, he needs to be thinking more about how he is entering adulthood.
Give her more time.
Geesh, it's like you people think sex is just the most important thing there is in life.
At 14, she feels that sex with an adult makes her grown up?
Are you just making stuff up now? What God-like powers did you use to arrive at that conclusion?
I myself prefer not making baseless assumptions about people and what their motives may or may not be. Human beings are for more dynamic than you obviously have the ability to comprehend.
It makes her nothing more than an object to be used, no matter the spin you want to put on it.
More assumptions? So all women above the age of 18 can never he used as sex objects?
How do you know that was the boy's motive? Those God-like powers of yours?? And how do you know that would be the case for all 19-year-old boys?
And why do you get to make these grand and baseless generalizations, and then use them to exert authority over others??
She isn't ready to enter grown up relationships.
Why do you get to make that decision for her, instead of her and her parents?
Stupidity is believing that intimacy and responsibility should be thrown under the bus because there is no love or intimacy in this kind of selfish act, which the boy thought he would benefit by.
Sex only benefits boys?
She never would benefit by it.
How were you able to induce that a sexual relationship would not benefit her?
How disrespectful is it to the other person to reduce sex to such an animalistic level to say it is consensual.
Consensual sex is animalistic? Are you effing serious? What kind if demented rapist are you? So only non-consensual sex is OK in your opinion?
Rape it is, because he took advantage of her youth. Don't spin it, call it what it is.
So, 14 year old girls don't like having sex? Interesting. I guess you'll be glad to know that my wife and I have been having sex together since she was 14 (we're in our 30's now).
My wife doesn't seem very "destroyed." Actually, she would probably hate you for being so ignorant. She gets really pissy when people think that she's not capable of making decisions for herself (she's always been that way).
It's OK, though. I know what type of person you are. You're one of those that gets pleasure from the destruction of other people's lives, especially if you can use government force to your advantage (lawful evil). So you make up drivel about "protecting" people so you can take power and then gleefully trample through people's happiness.
You are an absolutely sick individual.edit on 14-11-2014 by LewsTherinThelamon because: (no reason given)edit on 14-11-2014 by LewsTherinThelamon because: (no reason given)
At 14, she feels that sex with an adult makes her grown up?
It makes her nothing more than an object to be used, no matter the spin you want to put on it.
She isn't ready to enter grown up relationships.
Stupidity is believing that intimacy and responsibility should be thrown under the bus because there is no love or intimacy in this kind of selfish act, which the boy thought he would benefit by.
She never would benefit by it.
How disrespectful is it to the other person to reduce sex to such an animalistic level to say it is consensual.
Rape it is, because he took advantage of her youth. Don't spin it, call it what it is.