I'm a guy, and even I had some weird encounters with people when I was in Manhattan. The last time I was there it was below freezing one day, and
there was a naked guy running through Central Park. I mean give me a break. That was pretty funny though, lol. And then I got a counterfeit $10 bill
in change at a fast food place, lol. Then the transit officer saw me trying to put it in the EZ pass machine, and was like "that's fake." The machine
wouldn't take it, and that is when I realized it, and she told me to go up to one of the kiosks and spend it, which I did.
Anyway, a lot of guys do not realize that most women do not want guys barking at them. Even girls who are not that attractive often get this from guys
many times per day. Or at least that is what I have seen and been told by girls I've talked to about it. I think it also depends on how big of a city
you live in. There are going to be more creepy guys in larger cities. I imagine that sometimes these ladies feel threatened, especially when a guy
comes up and is all in their personal space, or is aggressive. Aggressive is bad when the woman does not know who you are, or what your intentions
are. Women overseas are a bit more laid back about stuff like this, at least in Europe, but I suppose it depends on the country. In some countries
these guys will be ignored, or even insulted, while in others the ladies do not seem afraid or the guy or worried about him. But maybe a lot of it has
to do with the individual woman and how she thinks and feels.
I've gone up and talked to many women that I didn't know, and I have had many more successes than failures. Much of this is likely because I do not
approach a lady at a horrible time. Walking up to a woman who is walking on the street is not something I've ever done, because that is not a good
time in my opinion. And one has to be extremely careful how they present themselves. What you say is sometimes not important at all, while at other
times it is the most important thing. But saying some of the stuff that these guys in the video said is always a no-no. You don't go up and act like
you're after a dog in heat, ever. You never do that. The ONLY way it would work is if you happened to catch a girl who simply wanted to sleep with a
guy, like right then, and that rarely happens. You are more apt to find a woman like this in a club, but even then it is a long shot.
And even IF you find a girl like that, most of the time they still will not just go with any guy who walks up to them, and they will still turn down
all but one of the guys anyway, therefore what you say is still probably important. See some of the guys in the video did not make the mistake of
saying the wrong thing, but the moment was a horrible one. Why? Because you see how many times the woman had been hit on. The guy is thinking that he
is doing her a favor by paying her a compliment, when he's not. See he doesn't realize that he is not the only one approaching the woman. And another
mistake is that the guys are obviously interested in her in a sexual manner. Most of the time you do not want to give that impression. Women usually
want to feel that the guy is interested in them for other reasons, although again it depends on their mindset and what they're looking for at that
particular time. But one of the keys is being "different" in a good way. You cannot do what all these other guys are doing and hope for success, as it
will rarely come.
A woman can feel attracted to a guy and still turn him down or refuse to talk to him, depending on how he presents himself. But the attraction itself,
the emotion that a woman does or does not feel, is not something she controls. Attraction is not a choice by any means. Any guy ever heard a girl tell
a guy something like "you're so nice, and I wish more guys were like you?" Yet they never date that guy...That is called the friend zone, and what it
means is that the woman likes the way the guy acts, but she is not attracted to that guy. She might wish that she was, because she really does like
how "nice" the guy is...but nice does not create biological attraction. And attraction definitely is biological. Like most other animals, the females
wish to mate with the alpha males. And thus why they feel attraction for the alpha males. This does not mean however that the guy has to be
aggressive, controlling, abusive, etc...Some of those things will attract a lot of women, but most women still will not end up with a guy like that.
The key to creating attraction without the negative aspects is to be confident, plain and simple. To be confident, and not let a woman intimidate you.
If a guy can do that, and can treat a woman well without giving up his power, then that is about 3/4 of the battle won. There is a lot more to it, but
those are the most basic and important aspects.
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