posted on Oct, 21 2014 @ 05:31 PM
Let me give you all a little background story before anything.
I dated this girl for a little over 6 years, she was my highschool sweetheart. The last 2 years of our relationship it was her pushing me to finish
school, telling me how to spend my money, making me do things I didn't want to do in general. I know she had good intentions but I was doing things
at a pace that I could handle, which she didn't like so I felt like I had to lie to her so she wouldn't be upset.
I'm 23 years old and i still live at home with my mother, so did she. At the beginning of this year she started her career after completing her
bachelor degree. So at many times she would get off work tire and come over and sleep which I would understand. At one point I asked her to spend the
night, but she never could cause her mother wouldn't allow it, that I didn't understand since her mother very much liked me and we had been together
for so long.
So she couldn't spend the night, I would just tell her go home and rest and I would see you another day. It went like that for a few months we hung
out less and less and I met a new girl around April. I didn't think much of her until I started talking to her more and more.
Eventually I broke up with my ex and my mother wasn't very happy about that. Now my mother and I never really talk but she thinks I cheated on my ex
which I did not I just moved on without looking for something new.
Now I've been with this new girl officially for 3 months and I am very happy.
But my issue is that my mom hates her because she thinks I cheated. The other night I had her over the house and my mother went to my room and told me
to get her out of her house, or she would call the police. Its her house I understand that but she didn't have to be so disrespectful to her.
This girl and I decided a month ago to move in together since we get along so well. We plan to move out by February, I should also mention that her
family loves me, her and I just went on a week cruise together and i had the time of my life and I know she did as well. Although it's been a few
months together I asked her mother for her daughters hand in marriage and she gave me her blessings(this is something her and I talked about and her
mother told me she wanted me to ask)
Now I don't know what to say to my mother or how to deal with this situation and would really love some help.