I'm in great need of advice after finding myself, yet again, in a complicated and stressful "relationship".
To make the long story short I'm a busy furniture maker, recently relocated and work a lot in a remote workshop in the countryside (close to Lyon
France) and all my friends are now either married, have children and are too busy (or know better) to introduce me to their female friends.And I don't
go out like... by myself.
That's why I started using dating sites to try to meet girls, potentially to build something real. Unfortunately I have not met the right girls (I
guess I am quite choosy).
I started seeing this girl two month ago. We started off by really getting along together and had this good friend vibe. Shared some topics of
interest etc... then we took it to next step and I must say I really felt like it was not really what I should have done.
Our relationship turned into something really difficult for me in a very short time. She turned out to be really really demanding in terms of "proofs
of affection", texting me all day long. I hate this thing. Like... I'm a really hard worker and I need to be focused and the pressure of someone you
don't know that well waiting for me to answer millions of messages and most of the time for such a poor content of discussion kills me. I'm into real
things. face to face.
Then she quit her job. And had even more time to obsess on me or us or whatever.
Then she started having money problems and I discovered she had some serious health problems. Which made me feel sympathetic.
To be honest I want out this relationship so bad. It is really affecting me because she has turned into a very moody, depressed, slightly crazy person
I didn't even really know and now I feel I must stay with her to help her at least get out of that state of self neglecting.
I knew from the start she wasn't "the one" but we both needed to share some affection. Now I am stuck with a person that is focused on me due to lack
of personal projects and in need of constant proof of love. Which I don't have...
How the Freak am I gonna get out of this. I'm so close to breaking point. I just want her to vanish.
I know... it's horrible. I just don't want her to loose it though.
I'm not a bad person. I'm ready for something real. I'm just struggling to find love. :/
edit on 12-10-2014 by Logiciel because: (no reason
edit on 12-10-2014 by Logiciel because: spelling. I'm a frog