posted on Oct, 1 2014 @ 12:01 AM
I feel for you. I just moved away from the neighbors from hell a month or so ago. My mental health has dramatically improved since the move.
I can not stand it when someone comes to my door unannounced. There are only a few reasons for knocking on someones door unannounced, and an emergency
is the only one I find acceptable, and better happen no more than once every five years.
My husband and I are the same, we are both introverts. I am not the type of woman who likes playing hostess. I dread it. The only people I want over
are people I feel comfortable enough with to send them to get their own glass of water if they are thirsty in my home. The only 2 people that fall
under that category live in another state.
So... I think what needs to happen here is to blackmail the blackmailer. Give him a taste of his own medicine. Be super needy for a month. Ask before
he has a chance to do. Start doing things like wash his car with a nice wax stripping laundry detergent , maybe even build a hideously ugly garden
using recycled materials in his yard. The turn around and ask for a ridicules favor.