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originally posted by: Kangaruex4Ewe
a reply to: CardiffGiant
I didn't mean bad in a bad way.
I meant that even in my 30's and being a woman, I sometimes find it difficult to not give into the strong urge to revert to a 16 year old boys mind and sense of humor. That's all. I have a hard time not "going there" and getting myself into trouble for carrying it a bit far. Your OP was so full of things I could have commented on and been banned for out of pure amusement. So I guess maybe I'm bad for lacking self control lol.
That's all. Your entire OP was hysterical IMO.
originally posted by: Montsta
By definition then I am a man who has been raped at least five or maybe even more different times by various women. Because I have woke up in a strangers bed, at their house or in their hotel room in Vegas, and not remembered that night before. I've then had to do the walk of shame to get back home or to my room. A couple of times my attacker went out to breakfast or coffee with me afterward. What kind of sick individual does that?
The law does go both ways right?
originally posted by: Montsta
a reply to: InTheLight
Not very. I vaguely remember on at least one occasion the woman saying "hey we should take this party back to my room" and I remember thinking it was a setup. I then remember doing a fireball shot in the room and not much else after that. Then I woke up and we were both naked.
Another time I vaguely remember the woman saying I love you when we were outside of her hotel room fumbling for the room key, even though we just met that night. I recall thinking ok that's weird, and that's the last I remember.
This man was raped, yet you're treating him like some attacker. Shame on you. This has been happening since the beginning of time. People blame the victim.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Montsta
a reply to: InTheLight
Not very. I vaguely remember on at least one occasion the woman saying "hey we should take this party back to my room" and I remember thinking it was a setup. I then remember doing a fireball shot in the room and not much else after that. Then I woke up and we were both naked.
Another time I vaguely remember the woman saying I love you when we were outside of her hotel room fumbling for the room key, even though we just met that night. I recall thinking ok that's weird, and that's the last I remember.
Were you watching her alcohol and/or drug consumption all evening? Did she partake of these fireball shots in the room?
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Montsta
a reply to: InTheLight
Not very. I vaguely remember on at least one occasion the woman saying "hey we should take this party back to my room" and I remember thinking it was a setup. I then remember doing a fireball shot in the room and not much else after that. Then I woke up and we were both naked.
Another time I vaguely remember the woman saying I love you when we were outside of her hotel room fumbling for the room key, even though we just met that night. I recall thinking ok that's weird, and that's the last I remember.
Were you watching her alcohol and/or drug consumption all evening? Did she partake of these fireball shots in the room?
originally posted by: Montsta
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Montsta
a reply to: InTheLight
Not very. I vaguely remember on at least one occasion the woman saying "hey we should take this party back to my room" and I remember thinking it was a setup. I then remember doing a fireball shot in the room and not much else after that. Then I woke up and we were both naked.
Another time I vaguely remember the woman saying I love you when we were outside of her hotel room fumbling for the room key, even though we just met that night. I recall thinking ok that's weird, and that's the last I remember.
Were you watching her alcohol and/or drug consumption all evening? Did she partake of these fireball shots in the room?
No I wasn't watching her alcohol consumption, but she seemed a lot more coherent then me. Propping me up, hailing the cab, getting us back to her room. I couldn't of done any of these things as I was wasted. And yes, she took one fireball shot to my 2 or 3 fireball shots. At least from what I remember because she laughed at me because I tried to slam my shot glass down on the counter and missed and looked like an idiot.
I find it an interesting sociological quip that because I am a man that this happened to your immediate concern is how much the woman had to drink.
Same exact story comes from a woman, nobody cares how much the guy had to drink, it was rape, plain and simple.
If a woman rapes somebody because she's been drinking, that doesn't absolve her of her crime. Making excuses for rapists is not the way to go, in my opinion.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Montsta
By definition then I am a man who has been raped at least five or maybe even more different times by various women. Because I have woke up in a strangers bed, at their house or in their hotel room in Vegas, and not remembered that night before. I've then had to do the walk of shame to get back home or to my room. A couple of times my attacker went out to breakfast or coffee with me afterward. What kind of sick individual does that?
The law does go both ways right?
How drunk or incapacitated was she?
originally posted by: addygrace
If a woman rapes somebody because she's been drinking, that doesn't absolve her of her crime. Making excuses for rapists is not the way to go, in my opinion.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Montsta
By definition then I am a man who has been raped at least five or maybe even more different times by various women. Because I have woke up in a strangers bed, at their house or in their hotel room in Vegas, and not remembered that night before. I've then had to do the walk of shame to get back home or to my room. A couple of times my attacker went out to breakfast or coffee with me afterward. What kind of sick individual does that?
The law does go both ways right?
How drunk or incapacitated was she?
originally posted by: wrkn4livn
a reply to: mikeone718
That's because men usually DONT get raped (always someone willing to minimize or joke about rape).
I agree, which is why these females should be locked up for a long time.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: addygrace
If a woman rapes somebody because she's been drinking, that doesn't absolve her of her crime. Making excuses for rapists is not the way to go, in my opinion.
originally posted by: InTheLight
originally posted by: Montsta
By definition then I am a man who has been raped at least five or maybe even more different times by various women. Because I have woke up in a strangers bed, at their house or in their hotel room in Vegas, and not remembered that night before. I've then had to do the walk of shame to get back home or to my room. A couple of times my attacker went out to breakfast or coffee with me afterward. What kind of sick individual does that?
The law does go both ways right?
How drunk or incapacitated was she?
Considering the poster was incapacitated Beyond Belief, I doubt he was aware of whether or not this female was incapacitated or not.
originally posted by: addygrace
Really it comes down to this. The legal limit will never be the real threshold, because that means many of us have been raped. That doesn't seem coherent with reality. A jury isn't gonna convict on the legal limit argument. Any public defender could get it dismissed before it ever got to a jury, if there are no other circumstances that would point to rape. The legal limit argument has no proof unless you get a breathalyzer or a blood test as soon as you have sex.
originally posted by: intrepid
You obviously don't have a Y chromosome. Dude's don't look at it quite the same way. When they get rubbed they're expecting something.
originally posted by: intrepid
I don't know what a woman is going to do on the floor. Are you assuming we do? The opposite response. Don't want unwanted male attention, don't funk their junk.