posted on Aug, 26 2014 @ 11:07 PM
a reply to: olaru12
lol. No insult intended
I just felt like making a generalization... those usually work out well right?
My point though, is that humans are very sexual in nature. When people of any gender wear outfits that expose areas of sexual interest, it's likely
to cause those of the opposite sex to become distracted by that; distracted from any other good qualities that may be there.
I'm not saying that is a good thing, but it happens, that's why procreation works and we all still exist. That's why guys and girls both faun over
the sexiest examples of their opposite sex - even if they know they have nothing in common and no other good qualities; it doesn't matter because the
sexual image is all they see eventually.
This can lead to peers realizing the special treatment given to them, due to their sexuality, and will try to emulate. The problem with that is not
that they too are being sexual, but it's that they now think that sexuality is what is needed to get ahead. So it created bad feelings among those
who are unable/unwilling to flaunt themselves for the benefit, and it created misconceptions in those that think they can really get ahead with that
way of behaving.
Along with that, it certainly attracts a bad type of person a lot of the time - the type of person who only wants you for your sexuality. Not only
these people (everyone else too, mostly for the wrong reason), but these people are a concern. Because it's likely to lead to people to becoming
friends with similarly limited morals and goals (since they think their looks are all they need). Puts people on a completely different path
ultimately, do to the exposure to bad influences and positive reinforcement that is dependent on a fading quality.
On top of that...When I was in school I LOVED that kind of dressing, but it was damn distracting - man the time I wasted chasing and... yeah... with
girls like that... Sexuality is a drug sometimes, it can take you many places, teach many lessons but should always be handled carefully.
That's all I got. No insults intended.
Okay now you go, then we can each switch perspectives on the issue then go again ? lol