I'm going to get real, and slammed from you guys I can tell.
People judge others by the way they look and especially by the first glance and first impression.
I taught Psychology for a lot of years in college and this is a truth, if you don't like it, fine, but it is still true.
Don't think that is how it should be, ok, but that won't change reality.
Dress like a whore who will lay it out for anyone, expect for people to take you at your word.
90% of communication is non-verbal. And the way one dresses is a large part of non-verbal communication with strangers.
Doesn't matter how nice or intelligent you really are. Give the first glance impression of whoredom, that's what people will think of you. Doesn't
matter if you think they are wrong for judging, it will happen nonetheless. Doesn't matter what you think of them in return for judging you, they
will still judge you. Don't care, fine, do what you want, but they will still view you as a whore.
Guys who dress like scary criminals, expect for people to take you at your word too. Have a but crack showing, a belt that hangs below your crotch,
tattoos running up and down your neck and face, that is the impression you are giving that is what you are saying to the world, rather you want it to
or not, rather it is fair or not, even if you don't give a sh.... That is what people will think.
Parents who think their little darlings look cute when they look like whores and criminals, well expect people to treat them as if they were.
Doesn't matter how mad you get at others for judging your little angel, they will, that's reality, the way it is.
Also, Psychology has found that the way people treat you greatly affects your outcome in life.
If a child looks like a whore or criminal, people (right or wrong, no matter what you think) will treat them like whores and criminals, greatly
increasing their chances of entering into a self-fulfilling prophecy - "If people think I'm a whore or criminal, then I'll da... well act like one or
I don't care what you wear or have your kids wear. Just be aware, even if you don't care, of the cause and effect that can and often does result.
So I know a bunch of you are going to slam me a good one. I don't care. Because what I have said is the truth, even if you refuse to accept it, that
will not change the truth and reality.
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