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originally posted by: RUFFREADY
right from facebook ..as I type... (I sent her the Scotland plan) she said...
Her : so what we do
Me: we get married that's what we do
Her: Yea, i want to marry you
Me: I want to marry you too.. so we will
originally posted by: queenofsheba
Ruffready is on hiatus right now, just spoke to him and he is fine. He is simply taking a break from virtual reality and in the interim has appointed me his personal guardian and I'll make sure he's not an easy mark. He always comes back, no worries
originally posted by: Realtruth
1) Get on a plane and go over and spend time with her, if you are going to invest in marriage and a life partnership, then 30 days will be a small investment, and you can see her in her environment.
2) Marriage is a contract, business deal and the other party immediately has 50% control. 100% if you should pass unexpectedly. Marrying her in the Philippines will allow her automatic citizenship to your country.
3) Weigh the pros and cons of marriage, on paper, and do not be stingy when detailing them.
5) ( Wise Option to Consider ) If she can be hired as a Nanny, then she can stay for an extended period of time, and then you will really get to know her.
6) Jump in the waters fine