Hey!! anyone here know how I can get a woman from the Philippines Islands here to the USA fast.. ??

originally posted by: Kangaruex4Ewe
Did you tell her that you were "sort of rich"? If you did that may have been a huge mistake. You should have led her to believe you were as poor as a church mouse. I hope you did the latter and not the former so you could be a bit more sure of why she wants to come visit. Either way... I wish you the best of luck!

No..I did not..as a matter of fact ..she has no Idea how much $$$ I have ..except for my house..ansd that my wife died..etc...she has been a friend..like most of my other 75 facebook friends ..she also works at a family business ..and has money herself.. did you see her dog??? ... she is upper class.. etc... this did not happen over night...

I think it is best to meet love interests in the flesh before you commit to marrying them, but at any rate
love is hard to come by these days, best of luck to you.

a reply to: RUFFREADY
Make sure you have an ironclad prenup with no loopholes in it .. and may whatever dieties you believe in have mercy on you .. your going to need it ..

On that note am off .. time for a cigar and a drink ..

originally posted by: violet
a reply to: RUFFREADY

Nice. If it's really her. Bet she is talking to 15 other men though, setting up the same deal.
If it turns out she has some excuse why she must buy the tickets, she's no good.

In any case best of luck.

Yeah..well I thought of that..

But ..I have my own fixes in..

if what you said is true...I'll catch it

If I don't try..I'll always wonder ..right ??

I just have to play it smart and do what I do (and did in the Navy) and see...

There is no other way..except.. turn away.

originally posted by: Expat888
a reply to: RUFFREADY
Make sure you have an ironclad prenup with no loopholes in it .. and may whatever dieties you believe in have mercy on you .. your going to need it ..

On that note am off .. time for a cigar and a drink ..

That is what I will do ..

cheers

originally posted by: RUFFREADY

originally posted by: Expat888
a reply to: RUFFREADY
Make sure you have an ironclad prenup with no loopholes in it .. and may whatever dieties you believe in have mercy on you .. your going to need it ..

On that note am off .. time for a cigar and a drink ..

That is what I will do ..

cheers

And don't forget...

HIDE.... I REPEAT... HIDE THOSE DARNED PING PONG BALLS....



Kindest respects

Rodinus

Oh..by the way.. I was in the Marines for years ..the navy for a long time lol!!

I lived on Guam for two years ...off and on ..
Did things in Hong Kong.. Africa.. Vietnam ..Ummm..here and there ..lol !!

This woman ..won't fool me one bit..

But..I am giving her my trust.. with reserves.

As I told the last American woman.. I am not stupid ...she is gone..

I was only 21 years old when I landed on an aircraft carrier (in a helicopter) .. the first time .. I was 27 yeas old when I jumped from a plane and the chute opened ..duh !! lol!!
I came face to face with a shark that was so big..that it made me mad..and it swam away ..(long story)

To me ..this is a piece of cake.. and maybe 50/50 ..?

originally posted by: Expat888
a reply to: RUFFREADY
Make sure you have an ironclad prenup with no loopholes in it .. and may whatever dieties you believe in have mercy on you .. your going to need it ..

On that note am off .. time for a cigar and a drink ..

Well, can't say you didn't warn him...


Ruffready, hope you know what you are doing
I'm like the others, kinda leery of the whole deal....sorry

Please don't let her manipulate you
Watch your money

Regardless, best of luck with what ever you decide to do

That being said, I wouldn't get married just to get her inside the US

BTW, does she know your name here on ATS??

originally posted by: RUFFREADY
Oh..by the way.. I was in the Marines for years ..the navy for a long time lol!!

I lived on Guam for two years ...off and on ..
Did things in Hong Kong.. Africa.. Vietnam ..Ummm..here and there ..lol !!

This woman ..won't fool me one bit..

But..I am giving her my trust.. with reserves.

As I told the last American woman.. I am not stupid

...she is gone..

I was only 21 years old when I landed on an aircraft carrier (in a helicopter) .. the first time .. I was 27 yeas old when I jumped from a plane and the chute opened ..duh !! lol!!
I came face to face with a shark that was so big..that it made me mad..and it swam away ..(long story)

To me ..this is a piece of cake.. and maybe 50/50 ..?

Soon as she starts dancing to woo tang clan
I'd have her out !
And cats are top ov menu !
Watch the cats !

originally posted by: Rodinus

originally posted by: RUFFREADY

originally posted by: Expat888
a reply to: RUFFREADY
Make sure you have an ironclad prenup with no loopholes in it .. and may whatever dieties you believe in have mercy on you .. your going to need it ..

On that note am off .. time for a cigar and a drink ..

That is what I will do ..

cheers

Hahahah!! lol!! Ahhh!! funny!! heheheheh!!

And don't forget...

HIDE.... I REPEAT... HIDE THOSE DARNED PING PONG BALLS....

Kindest respects

Rodinus

a reply to: RUFFREADY

two ways....the illegal way is to get her here on "vacation" then get married in the usa....then immidiately hire an attorney.. she may have to leave the country at some point to reenter properly but if marriage is your end goal than that is one way. Another is to get married and start the paperwork which is a total pain in the butt and can take a lot of time. with how America is id go the illegal route and get an immigration attorney...i see illegal but quite a few people do it just cost much more...to include fines.

My advice would be to visit her first in the Philippines. Get a sense of who she is in her own environment; where she lives, who her friends are, where/if she works, etc. You will learn a lot about her that way, she will learn a bit about you, and can begin to see whether you are compatible.

Then have her visit you in the US, on a holiday for a few weeks, to further test the potential relationship. Then let her fly back to the Philippines, to see how you feel away from the haze of companionship.

If there is a real potential there, then a month or so together, with small breaks away from each other, and you should be able to tell if there are real lasting feelings there.

If you still feel there is something, have your finances in order to protect yourself just in case, and dive in!

Good luck!

a reply to: puzzlesphere

Thanks for that..

I'm not to hip on going to the PI alone.. I have been there many times ..but not now ..no way

I hold the $$$ and I call the shots from this end..

I will run this ship from the USA ..or nothing

So far she is on board..

originally posted by: rockpaperhammock
a reply to: RUFFREADY

two ways....the illegal way is to get her here on "vacation" then get married in the usa....then immidiately hire an attorney.. she may have to leave the country at some point to reenter properly but if marriage is your end goal than that is one way. Another is to get married and start the paperwork which is a total pain in the butt and can take a lot of time. with how America is id go the illegal route and get an immigration attorney...i see illegal but quite a few people do it just cost much more...to include fines.

That was my thought

Get her here , then Bam!!

originally posted by: snarky412

originally posted by: Expat888
a reply to: RUFFREADY
Make sure you have an ironclad prenup with no loopholes in it .. and may whatever dieties you believe in have mercy on you .. your going to need it ..

On that note am off .. time for a cigar and a drink ..

Well, can't say you didn't warn him...


Ruffready, hope you know what you are doing
I'm like the others, kinda leery of the whole deal....sorry

Please don't let her manipulate you
Watch your money

Regardless, best of luck with what ever you decide to do

That being said, I wouldn't get married just to get her inside the US

BTW, does she know your name here on ATS??

Thanks... and yes..I told her today I was Ruffready.. is that bad??

a reply to: RUFFREADY

America is one, if not the hardest countries in the World to get into..

originally posted by: SecretKnowledge
a reply to: RUFFREADY

America is one, if not the hardest countries in the World to get into..

Falls off chair!
Unless your Mexican !

originally posted by: Denoli

originally posted by: SecretKnowledge
a reply to: RUFFREADY

America is one, if not the hardest countries in the World to get into..

Falls off chair!
Unless your Mexican !

Try Australia they don't even let the Australians in !
Sits back on chair

a reply to: Denoli

I need to go lol!! Need to change into my other cloths

originally posted by: RUFFREADY
a reply to: Denoli

I need to go lol!! Need to change into my other cloths

Be brave !
Be very brave !
Save the song for the first dance ! Lol
Watch when you go to the bathroom she will be doing this to your friends !m.youtube.com...