posted on Jun, 29 2014 @ 05:50 AM
Unless you are neurotic and totally insecure, if you feel someone is cheating on you, then they are... what you do depends on what you want and
If you have kids, you are obligated to really think it through... but as you do not, my advice would be to buckle up, leave and be miserable for a few
days ...until the world opens up, the heavens sing and you get laid again by a new love.
You probably caused the infidelity ...at least partially, but if she was serious and a decent individual, she would leave you or bring it up to talk
over and work through. She did not, so she wasn't and is not.
Remember that decent people exist, relationships can play out though nobody's fault, sex is a silly act but has implications that differ from person
to person and that new love is the most exciting, life affirming thing humans experience.
The seven year itch is a real phenomena and monogamy is truly tough... the toughest thing besides parenthood people do. Just be glad you didn't
spawn and find a new girl who is compatible and wants the same things and is honest... they do exist, however scarce they seem.
Good luck, dude, and don't lose it like some idiots and hurt someone or yourself... it's just a relationship, and they don't much evolve after the
6th grade... no matter how grown up and complex we try to make it.
I hope another opinion helps... I know how insane you are right now... and I'm sorry. Hey, at least you feel alive right now...