posted on Jul, 16 2014 @ 01:01 PM
a reply to: TheBlueShiroux
Seperate / descern attraction from compatibility. We are attracted to what's different and often challenging. Fantasies can seem convincing and
out-right manipulative. I was fixated on one individual for almost a decade because i was convinced it was meant to be.
I'm happy now with my current love and she challenges me to no end. We have different tastes and interests but we're one of the same, great chemistry.
I am young but given what I have learned, I feel i'm in the happiest scenario. Don't try to earn affection. I remember the day I met this new one, I
had zero expectations, I wasn't sure what I was feeling just that I was drunk off it. We both were, and that's what mattered most.
I did all i could spiritualy to unravel the mystery of the last one. Sometimes people are powerful mirrors, we feel drawn in and think they are our
concept of the one, when really sometimes they are the best mirror of your flaws. I did great battles with myself over that one. I really feel duped
over all of that but glad it happened because it taught me that some things are just obvious. It wasn't happening, and she wasn't worth it, because I
didn't need her to complete me, i was whole, and i saw the grief she caused me and no matter what I did not want a future of that.
The one i'm with now is not without problems. She is troubled but willing to grow with me, that's the difference, and she is very attractive to me,
even if i can't see her, her presence makes me smile. The energy wants to flow despite all odds.
Ask yourself what you need from anyone anyway.
edit on 16-7-2014 by CavemanDD because: (no reason given)