posted on Jun, 23 2014 @ 02:00 AM
a reply to: FlySolo
From a female perpective that's around the same age as you (I'm guessing by your photo), you ARE a handsome looking man. If I were single, damn
straight I'd answer you back. LOL.
But I think I'm also going to take a stab at what I think your problem might be (please correct me if I'm wrong):
If you're on that "Plenty of Fish" dating website, you're going to have one hell of a time trying to snag a woman from that site. It's a free
dating site and therefore, there's literally hundreds of thousands of fish to wade through. So everyone is going to become oober picky because...
well, because they can.
Another words, if you're not Brad Pitt.... you haven't a hope in hell on that site.
I've had a number of friends try that site for years (both male and female) and the female's get literally 20 messages a day to pick and choose
from, whereas the males are getting next to nothing.
Your best bet is to sit back and hope that a nice lady sends a message your way instead of you being the chaser... let them make the initial step.
You're standing in a long lineup of other contestants on that site, so you need to let the gals do the chasing.
So don't take it personally.
It's not you... it's just the way that site works.
"Plenty of Fish" is more of a meat market environment because of its free membership.
If you're truly serious about finding someone from a dating site, you have a better chance with the paid membership ones.
Amirite about you being on the POF website ?!