posted on Jun, 22 2014 @ 12:02 AM
a reply to: CaptainHook
Yes I too find it annoying when they say "Don't want a kid, don't have sex."
While yes there are ways of having wonderful orgasms without actually having sex, sex is still something enjoyable and for some people, it helps to
bond & cement the relationship.
My Mom didn't forbid us to have sex, instead she told us all about condoms, birth control & STD's. She said that "If a guy can't be bothered to
put on a condom, then don't have sex with him. After all, a guy can easily bow out of a pregnancy but the girl is the one who has the hard choices to
make. Do you think you could handle having an abortion?"
My older sister did have to abort a baby because she & the baby daddy were doing drugs at the time & the baby daddy was a drug dealer. To this day she
still subconsciously morns the child, even though she knows it was the right thing to do.