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originally posted by: dave_welch
The only reason I don't want to do that is that I don't want to date someone who just wants to date but nothing serious. If I want a serious relationship and she doesn't, what's the point? If I wanted a FWB I could get one easily, that's not what I want.
I'm not saying you're wrong, I just don't understand why I should put in the time, money, and effort only to find out that she only wants to date?