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originally posted by: Bone75
a reply to: openyourmind1262
Obviously you are one of the guys eletheia was referring to, one who would breath a big sigh of relief if your partner told you she was having an abortion.
Its because of guys like you that guys like me have no rights when it comes to reproduction.
originally posted by: Benevolent Heretic
You DO have reproductive rights. You have many choices: Abstinence, condoms, spermicide, vasectomy to name a few. If you don't exercise them, you can't blame anyone but yourself. If YOU don't want to be a father, you have every right and many means to make sure it doesn't happen.
originally posted by: Bone75
Prior to pregnancy is when choices should be made, not after.
originally posted by: boymonkey74
a reply to: Bone75
Real men never need to tell others that they are real men.
Her body..the day men can carry kids is the day we have a say in it.
Also say you force that person tpo carry that child how you gonna do that?.
Tie them up....if the woman doesn't want the child you can't force her...
He was prohibited from wearing a condom? Was he prohibited from getting a vasectomy? Was he prohibited from abstaining? What do you mean he has "zero input in decisions"?
Real men would accept its the womans choice and not force her to carry your child
originally posted by: openyourmind1262
Do you carry that child? Does your body give that child anything in 9 months other than the sperm deposit? Do you go thru the pain of childbirth? If you answered no to all of them, why are we even discussing if you have rights.
In this instance NO , no you do not. You can carry your right around with you in the form of a condom. If the female your gonna be with say's she want if you wear the condom, then you dont have to have sex with her do you?
originally posted by: Bone75
What I want is the right to say "NO! YOU CANNOT KILL MY KID!"
So from one REAL MAN to another, tell me why I shouldn't have that right.
originally posted by: James1982
Why is it OK for women to have the right to walk away from the responsibility of a child. But it is not OK for a man to have the right to walk away from the responsibility of a child?
originally posted by: luciddream
SHE was prohibited from wearing a condom? Was SHE prohibited from getting a Hysterectomy? Was SHE prohibited from abstaining?
The woman can be careless and still have abortion as back up. What does men have?
originally posted by: luciddream
The issue i have with this whole double standard is that.. women can walk away and men cant.
and Women have the sole choice to ruin men's life, when both are actually at fault for doing the deed.
Need someone sort of sex prenup agreement!