They don't respect us grownups and teachers especially because they can easily understand that we are 'fake'! We are full of hypocrisy and
pretence. We act out our role to the exact minutest detail. And that's what kids mock.
After lots of patience from their side, kids get bored and maybe revengeful!
I have personally experienced the taste of a real teacher: a person that could truly approach us, because he was a genuine person! his session was a
real 'knowledge' party:
1) we arranged our desks in special ways.
2) we did theatrical presentations of the lesson.
3) we went out in nature.
4) we held long discussions about relationships. After all, at the tender age of 13 to 15, relationships is the no1 subject.
That teacher never had us memorize anything. He always appealed to our judgement. He was a true 'teacher', and even 'bullies' participated in the
class! it was truly amazing to see 25 hands, the whole of the class, furiously raised in order to be selected for answering the questions! Other
teachers came and watched the sessions in order to find out how to unlock the secrets to relations with children!
After all these years, I still can remember much of the lesson he tought, and many pleasant memories. I can't remember anything from other
teachers.
Kids can easily recognize what we really feel. While as adults we are trained not to pay attention to other people's feelings, kids are not.
So they can easily spot a teacher that has no actual interest in teaching. They can easily recognize the fake one, the pretending one. And we are all
great pretenders.
That's the problem with education. Strengthening discipline will bring less problems to teachers, but will not be a step forward for our society.

