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originally posted by: camain
let me offer you some advice, have a custody agreement drawn up BEFORE you walk out that door, and just to be clear make sure its 50/50 joint physical, joint legal. ANYTHING else means you are giving her power and control over you via your children. DO NOT be a stupid F*ck and go months without seeing your kids. All you do is give her ammo to screw you for support. WHATEVER you establish when you first leave is what is going to be until the kids are grown. the ONLY way you can change custody as a father is to prove her unfit. good luck bud.