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originally posted by: thesaneone
Can you try to explain your post a little bit better a lot of us are having a hard time understanding what your trying to say.
Thanks in advance.
originally posted by: Nyiah
Candlestick, the longer you're here posting things on ATS, the more I seriously wonder if you have Reactive Attachment Disorder to some degree, or a similar disorder. Are you by chance an orphan? History of abuse? I'm not asking to ridicule, I'm asking out of curiosity because your behavior, even for someone from Asia ( < -- edit: this denotes the stark differences between Western culture & Asian ones) is really, really odd overall.
originally posted by: Nyiah
If I'm understanding her clarification well, she's assuming that no parent truly loves their kids and has a dark, nefarious side targeting their kids to do/think harm.
originally posted by: pennylemon
What I am gathering from this post is that in most cultures it is unacceptable to speak ill of your parents and this in turn emboldens those that might be corrupted by this power.
Does this expectation allow more subtle forms of abuse to thrive. After all we do know that many children who are sexually abused are abused at the hands of family or friends of family.
originally posted by: Indigent
Hello good sir or madam,
I read this first and I dint get it, I checked your intro topic and saw you are not native English speaker so it makes more sense the second time i read it.
If i understand correctly, there is a conspiracy to force children to love their parent regardless of the treatment of the parent to the children or the quality of life the parent gives the child.
That kids are forced to love them even when parent don't love them, and even if you don't love your parent you force your kids to love you because its what its expected.
Well the issue is not love, its respect, if they feed you, educate you and cover every basic needs for free, it is required to not bite the hand that feed you
originally posted by: Kangaruex4Ewe
Your response to Nyiah was really uncalled for IMO. To be fair, she was/is not the only one that had a hard time understanding your post. Sarcastically playing a "kindergarten teacher" to someone that could have easily done the same to you considering your OP was not a nice thing to do. We have all made threads that others had a hard time comprehending. When that happens most do not have a problem clarifying so a meaningful discussion can take place. If meaningful discussions are what you wish for, talking down to others isn't an ideal way to get it.
the more I seriously wonder if you have Reactive Attachment Disorder to some degree, or a similar disorder.
I felt compelled to ask based on her posting history.
rape(or hit) you