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originally posted by: Kali74
(who doesn't defend people they care about when they feel they're being attacked or insulted?).
originally posted by: thedeadtruth
What I personally will not stand for is anyone being abused for a physical or intellectual trait they were born with. Obesity does not fall into this category.
Choose your fights carefully. Or sooner or later people think you represent nothing.
originally posted by: Kali74
a reply to: grainofsand
It has nothing to do with political correctness. It's fine that you aren't attracted to fat people. No one can help who they are attracted to. Your friend said you were being unkind, you were... you seem to be under the impression that you can be a jerk and everyone should accept that.
originally posted by: Kali74
a reply to: benrl
I'm in no way saying he's wrong for not being attracted to fat people. A REASONable person can think before they speak and simply state I"m not attracted to said person and that would have been that. Instead he FELT like being a jerk about it.
cause (someone) to feel intense distaste and aversion.
originally posted by: Kryties
originally posted by: smithjustinb
Ask me what I think and I'll tell you. Don't ask me, and I still might tell you. You sound like a yes man. Someone lacking individuality. Someone that can be herded up in a cage and used and taken advantage of by another person for their own selfish desires. That's my first impression of you based on how you are viewing this situation.
Wow, you couldn't be more wrong about me if you tried! But thanks for confirming my thoughts about you being judgemental, I hope you don't get everyone as wrong as you just did me.
Or maybe that's the problem?