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originally posted by: Dark Ghost
a reply to: InTheLight
I don't know where this idea that "because women represent about 50% of the population, that they should hold 50% of positions in the fields of politics and business by virtue of their sex alone" comes from, but it's a grossly illogical philosophy.
It's like me saying "well men represent 50% of the population, why don't they hold 50% of jobs in the nursing and beauty industries?"
The truth is that men and women tend to show an interest in different careers and excel at different things. This explains the larger number of male politicians and businessmen, not an "oppression of women" as some would suggest.
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: BDBinc
It's ok Bdb,Think whatever you want. But your little fantasy isn't going to make something true.
I interacted with the woman, and deduced from what I saw. I at least have something to base my conclusions on.
You weren't there, possess zero facts, and are imagining things, which, by the way, do not sound healthy, nor do they validate your personal reactions. End of story.
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: InTheLight
You are talented at blaming men for your woes. If power and money and opportunity is what you want, seize it as everyone else has done.
C'mon Spira. We don't need to appeal to shame here
There's no reason to pretend I am dismissing real acts of violence or struggles that people face, simply because I don't subscribe to your particular brand of rhetoric.
They want more power, more influence, more security and more capital for women, from a society that they claim is built, ran, and that favours, men. Is this not what a feminist is actually talking about when she says "I fight for equality"?
I know many women who have started their own businesses on their own accord with not a single man to help them. The pie is there for the taking if you choose. You have to take it. Literally no man is stopping you.
Yes I write hyperbolic, contrarian polemics representing my own views.
But I'm not selling a certain brand other than my own.
There is no reason to pretend - so I'm not pretending. It's all there in black and white
And while we're here, I am very curious to know - what is my brand of rhetoric? I'll bet you that you can't explain back to me - or to anyone reading for that matter - what my personal views on feminism really are
There are hints here and there - but so far you've just walked right past them :-)
There were two giant elephants in the room I created with that post - you managed to ignore them both so that you could make the point you wanted to make -
And Les - that post was not bitchy :-)
They are asking for those things - are you saying that's wrong? Honestly? You say they have those things now - so, you must believe in a conspiracy type theory wherein women are actually working towards dominion over men...
If you don't listen to what feminists are saying Les, how will you know what they're saying? :-)
The world is full of angry people - and political opportunists. That goes for women and men. That doesn't mean there are no issues and that feminists don't have a point. You want to reincorporate the promise of credibility that just mentioning those issues in passing might bring back to your position - but you won't actually discuss them as if they're real
Egalitarianism isn't based on all things actually being equal. It's about fairness and acceptance - being treated equally
Your views very often seem to be based on your dislike of other people expressing their views. How are you views not more of the same thing?
Do you feel bad for men then? Are they being treated unfairly? What is your brand?
Denial of the facts and others' experiences is your failure in this discussion LM.
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
a reply to: InTheLight
Denial of the facts and others' experiences is your failure in this discussion LM.
Atlantic Weekly and Salon articles are not facts, ITL.
Of course they are if they offer up real women's experiences dealing with real women's issues.
originally posted by: Dark Ghost
a reply to: InTheLight
One of many double standards in feminism:
- When promoting victimhood, all women are the same and all men are individuals
- When it comes to exposing negative behaviour, all women are individuals and all men are the same
originally posted by: Dark Ghost
a reply to: InTheLight
Look harder, you will find examples of both in this very thread!
Men who had the door held for them by another man reported lower feelings of self-esteem and self-belief than men who did not have the door held for them.
originally posted by: Dark Ghost
a reply to: InTheLight
The conclusions drawn from that study are deeply flawed, to say the least. Have a read through some of the comments underneath the article and you will see what I mean.
And it's another example of stereotyping men as a collective whole, instead of seeing them as individuals.
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
The other day I had the fortunate chance to hold a door open for another human being. But as I did so, the human I opened the door for asserted that such common courtesy wasn’t necessary, that she “didn’t need a man to hold a door open” for her, . . .
originally posted by: Annee
originally posted by: LesMisanthrope
The other day I had the fortunate chance to hold a door open for another human being. But as I did so, the human I opened the door for asserted that such common courtesy wasn’t necessary, that she “didn’t need a man to hold a door open” for her, . . .
There is no excuse for rudeness. This woman was rude.
I consider myself a Femnist. I support equality for women.
For you to judge all women who support equality, by this one woman's behavior is rude.
originally posted by: Annee
There is no excuse for rudeness. This woman was rude.
I consider myself a Femnist. I support equality for women.
For you to judge all women who support equality, by this one woman's behavior is rude.
originally posted by: Dark Ghost
originally posted by: Annee
There is no excuse for rudeness. This woman was rude.
I consider myself a Femnist. I support equality for women.
For you to judge all women who support equality, by this one woman's behavior is rude.
Only, he wasn't.
What the author of the thread was demonstrating was that this woman represents a certain mindset that is the product of radical feminist ideology. He did not imply that all all women, nor that all feminists, share the same mindset.
originally posted by: InTheLight
Yet, there is no proof this one woman was a radical feminist or any type of feminist, because the author of this thread didn't bother to start a dialogue with her but chose to let the door close on her while she was mid-way through.