posted on May, 5 2014 @ 05:52 AM
Some folks just cant be around other people socially. Its a pretty natural thing. These people also communicate a little differently. Almost coded or
esoteric. Too much attention and you feel drained, avoid attention and you gradually recharge from the last encounter. That has absolutely nothing to
do with physical attraction in the "good looking" vs "ugly" sense and very little to do with self esteem.
Take me for example, I cant even do this social interaction thing online and when I do, its normally with just a few people. Put me in a full chatroom
and im ok for about 30- minutes but I gotta get away from it in short order. Same works in public. I work on a gauge and Im quiet.
I pull houdinis
all the time.
As for the sorts the op may be speaking about...generally sounds like the attention whores of sorts. Sometimes obnoxious. Opposite of the description
above. They crave it, like a zombie would a crowd; they are better people with it, like vampires almost. Remove the attention and you get an angry
troll of sorts. Even then, that as well is not always about looks.
In other words, neither can make someone a frog humping monkey or whatever, but both types can have negative attitudes socially and both can be a turn
off very easily.
as for the looks, you never really know do ya.
edit on 5-5-2014 by Nephalim because: (no reason given)