a reply to: greyer
I didn't see this post when I replied, had I seen it I would have responded a tad differently, that is to say, you are projecting a lot of your own
negative experiences on everyone else. I don't know you, so I cannot hate you, I can dislike your verbiage, which I do, as it is very
confrontational, and all because what, you have had a few bad relationships?
I can no longer count the disastrous relationships I've had on my hands, it's part of life. Move on, and move up, it's that simple. Sitting there
wallowing in the past will only make you bitter and give you lots and lots of headaches.. it hurts , it really does, but look in the mirror,
relationships are two way streets, not one way, I've made my fair share of mistakes in them, I know that, and accept my responsibility in some of
mine going south and fast, once you can do that, you will understand how to have a healthy relationship.. and then you will be much happier.
I have to stress this again, a relationship is a two way street, once you start having more and more that go wrong, it's time to start accepting
responsibility of your own part in how they went bad rather than always saying "the evil girls never respect me or give me love, but i give them
love" One, or two that fail because of one person is not a concern, many, and I quote you:
So for no reason you girls have judged me wrongly and hated me my whole life without showing me one little tiny bit of love.
Seems to me that maybe how you show love may be the issue? Hm?
(yeah I'm so obnoxious and hate filled that I would give that advice just to make you even more miserable, right? Although, if you ask around here,
I am one of the most evil sadistic b's that lives..... so there's that as well)