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Is it assumed that everyone has had a bad childhood then?
reply to post by zuimon
Let all your repressed feelings out, and you’ll not have such pain anymore.
Nor much of a social life.
I am assuming that. Those children you refer to who should not be able to express all they feel so freely, do you think you were one of them when you were younger?
Did your parents reprimand you once, criticise you, stop you from being how you wanted to be? And just once. And if they did, did they then allow you to protest as much as you wanted when you felt hurt and unloved by them? Or would they have made you stop making you have to suppress some of those bad feelings?
The difficulty is that we forget the bad stuff because who wants to remember it; however my point is, all that bad stuff is still within us causing us all our pain and disease.
And good therapy will take you into it, even if you feel loved by your parents.
But of course, should you feel loved, and don't feel bad, you'll believe, as you've said, that there is nothing for you to go into because you're not repressing anything. However if you ever feel a pain or are every sick, even just cold, then it's because you have bad feelings repressed in you.
We want to blame a cold on stress, or an errant microbe that's attacking us - but why is it attacking, and why are you really stressed? What is going on deeper within you?
Childhood Repression - it’s causing all your pain.
We’re made to stop expressing all our feelings as young children. We are forced to suppress them. Then we repress them. And there they say within us forever hopeful that one day we’ll go back to them, and let them out.
All our pain, illness, why we get diseases, all our need to abuse ourselves through our ongoing bad feeling denial, all comes from having to keep our bad childhood feelings repressed.
Whilst you keep but one feeling repressed inside you, you’ll feel its pain. Let all your repressed feelings out, and you’ll not have such pain anymore.
It’s your childhood repression that’s making you sick - nothing else.