posted on Mar, 15 2014 @ 01:19 AM
But still.... shame on you for searching the sofa.
He's embarrassed enough already.
Shame on him? Seriously? It's HIS HOUSE. EVERYTHING in HIS house is HIS. If the son wants privacy... he's 20... he can move out, get his own house and
stash anything he wants wherever he wants.
OP should NOT be ashamed for searching his OWN house for illegal substances. In most states, if you are the owner of the house and the police find
drugs in there, it's your baby. So OP could wind up in trouble with the law himself, yet he should be ashamed??
I mean no disrespect, but that is ludicrous at best.
By consistently searching you will end up making him go insane.
It is one thing to call a bluff. It is another to take away his cards.
If the son goes insane, it is the son's fault. The OP has provided him with safe harbor, and I (assume) food, cable, heat, air, internet, etc. If he
is 20 and behaving like a child... then somebody should "take away his cards" until he learns how to play them IMO.
I don't understand why you think the OP is so bad? It seems like he has done nothing but help another man's grown man get back on his feet and asking
nothing in return but to follow a few simple house rules that his PO is also asking him to follow. A lot of men out there would not be so kind in the
same situation, nor women for that matter.
edit on 3/15/2014 by Kangaruex4Ewe because: (no reason given)