posted on Apr, 4 2014 @ 07:09 PM
Im sure your relieved to be on low contact! sounds honestly way too draining on you to deal with her on a daily basis, sometimes its good when kids
see the bad side to someone i think then they can form their own real opinion atleast and you sound like a awesome mum im sure you helped your child
to understand what had just happened & too comprehend why, kind of hard for you to explain why she is like that though when even you don't really
know why though! but its better to be upfront with them than keep it in the dark.
Yeah you definitely need to talk about it i know how numbing it can be holding all that kind of stuff in, i know we all deal with things differently
but keeping it bottled up inside really doesn't help, i can't talk though i keep alot of stuff bottled up inside too i know i shouldn't though!
Your best friend not knowing would have been a bit of a wake up call to how much you don't talk about it though. I know its not easy though but your
doing a good job at it and you will probably find people understand you a hell of alot better aswell, carrying all that on your shoulders everyday
isn't good i wish there was more i could say to help your situation i do know a bit of how you feel though & i know you don't know me very well,
sometimes thats easier when venting but if you ever need to talk just message me!
Yes i agree 110% pretending and going along with how she is
acting and just dealing with it isn't the right thing to do, not only because by letting it go on, whatever is making her like this is obviously
consuming her mentally and it would just get worse and worse as time goes on but also its not fair on yourselves, you have put up with enough why
should you have to go through the rest of your life still dealing with her being like that? You need to start healing yourself from everything you
have been through, you don't need her for that though, only yourself!