posted on Mar, 3 2014 @ 05:41 PM
I am so sorry that your father has to go through cancer. I know you already responded to another poster saying that your father will not be down with
natural remedies, bu5 if he has 3 months to ayear to live, he still has a chance. No one must die from cancer. No none. It os a result of diets
defficient in certqin vitamims and minerals, along with other facors such as additives, chemicals an d preservitives in the food we eat and the
products we use, and toxins in the air we breath. Try and convince him. I read a thread on another site about vitamin b12 from apricot seeds and apple
seeds, and hemp and cocnut oil. Too many ways to go about this. Talk to him.
With me and my dad, its about 50/50 sometimes. I spent about 80% of my time with my mom growig up becuase he spent his off days from work playing
tennis, and later on in my teen years golf. I remeber askig him if I can come with him becuase he went out amd did fun stuff, while I knew we were
goig0ng to go out and do boring crap with my mom like go shop for groceries, got to the mall for stuff, or hang at my aunts hair salon. By the time I
got to my teen years, didnt really care. Me and my lil bro went out with him here and there, butpaled in compqrison to how much time we spent with ou4
mom, and hoe kuch he prefered to go play tennis and golf. As a result, dient really feel all that close to him at all. When I found out he regularly
messes with othee chicks behind my mom, and condemns her or me when we begs to talk about it, I wrote him off as a dickhead. He still is, bigtime. He
can be quite cool and nice when we are on good terms, but he is generally bull#ty, and narrow minded where when refuses to recognise any wrongdoind on
his part, bit will make sure to point out or concoct yours in order to mantain moral high ground. I have fantasies of pubching him in the face. Even
when we are cool, I still always think what a small brained dickhead.
But still love him, and dont want anything bad to happen to him. At least you were qble to come to terms with the man.you still hqve a great
relationship. Get everything out. Lay it all down on the table. Dont let him go with anything still held in. I will ahve to figure out how to do the
same thing when ky parents time come. In fact, i should do this now. Only problem is, my dad probabely will not be honest about things until he is at
the door. But cherish him. I sort of partially dont like my dad, but I want to change that. Get it all out. You will feel more complete once you
And last, but most, talk to God. If you dont believe, like I did, then talk to him as if you are talking to somonr fade to face. Be hernest, and
supress the feeling its a joke. You will see things and realize things in your dreams, or while awake, that you have never realized before. But you
must feel it first. Same goes for your dad. If he does not beleive, or at least is not willing to talk to him, and feel stupid, then there is no use.
This is not coming from a long time perrson in Christ. I am still struggling with my own "active" imagination, but God has already shown me things
ahead of time. I just have to overcome my own laziness and pride.
Good luck, and God bless. I hope your father lives in peace and happiness if he choooses not to pursue natural care. My grandmother just came down
with colon cancer, but her situation is much easier to deal with, they caught it early. I too am quite fearfull of the future. I lost a relative i was
not close with to cancer recently.
Good luck. You can pm me.